A Good Match is Hard to Find

A day or so ago, I was speaking with a couple of my single girlfriends. One topic that continuously comes up is ...”Why is it so hard to find a man?”! It’s not that it’s hard to find a man, per se, but the ones they’re meeting never seem to “match”!! You may be asking yourself.. “JustTrena, what in the world are you talking about?” LOL..Ok, I’ll explain…

Do you remember the movie “Friday”, starring Chris Tucker and Ice Cube? In that movie, Chris’ character went on a rant about how “Craig and ‘em” never had anything that matched… “…Either y'all got Kool-Aid no sugar, peanut butter no jelly, ham, no burger. Daamn. ...!” That same dilemma is what many single women are facing now-a-days! It seems there are not many men out there that match! You have the “asshole who’s financially stable”; the “nice guy who’s broke”; the “charming but insecure” dude; the “tall illiterate guy”; the “super short intelligent man”…and the list goes on! Where are the financially secure nice guys at? Or the charming yet secure dudes? …. <_< … O_O... >_> … Anyone knows??

Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying there’s ANYTHING wrong with a tall guy or a short guy or whatever other trait an individual may or may not prefer, but where are the men with the traits that match and complete the whole picture when it comes to women’s preferences? One girlfriend said she met the most generous and kind dude….turns out he’s insecure and needy! What’s up with that?! Another friend met a gorgeous guy…why is he about three steps from illiterate? I mean, really??

Some men say once women get to a certain financial status, we become “stuck up” and/or “hard to please”. That may be true for some but for the women I associate with, it’s just boils down to not being able to find a decent “match”. Yeah, there’s always that self-proclaimed “nice guy” who’s constantly on one, talking about how nice he is and how women overlook him for the “bad boys”. Man, whatever! I feel any dude who has to make the announcement about how “nice” he is, probably isn’t really that nice and/or don’t “match”!! Yeah, dude, you may think you’re nice but how long do you expect a woman to stick around if you’re insecure? Or needy? Or always worried about the next dude? Sheesh….

I definitely know that money doesn’t make a man or that a nice body doesn’t make a nice person….but come on ya’ll…can a girl get some freakin’ Kool-Aid AND sugar??!! LOL…